Saturday, May 31, 2008

Help Bring Dmytro Home

Today I when I got the mail, I had a letter from one of my neighbors in my mailbox. They are a wonderful family and are truly making a difference.

The letter read:

Every child deserves a home. Currently, there are more than 120,00 children in orphanages in Ukraine. Approximately 120,000 more live on the streets. Few of these children have any chance of being adopted and most will never succeed in society after they leave the orphanage. It is estimated that 90% of the girls will turn to prostitution and over 80% of the boys will turn to gangs and a life of crime. The Ukrainian government estimates that 60% of these orphans will commit suicide within the first 5 years of independent life.

Our story began three years ago as my husband walked up the stairs of our home one night. Turning off the lights, he looked around and commented "Every night when we go to bed we leave half of this house empty. One day I think we will be held accountable for that." That is where our journey to Ukraine began. We began the process to adopt one little boy. While we were getting ready to go to Ukraine, we found a group of five sisters in need of adoption. We knew right away that these children were meant to be our daughters and off we went to bring them home.

We arrived on the very day the government had decided that the hopes of keeping them together had ended and they would all be separated. We had not seen photos of them and had little information. Upon arriving at the orphanage, I was introduced to what I fondly referred to as "my five little savages". Four of their heads had been shaved due to lice. The were malnourished and some had scabies. Their teeth were rotted. They had suffered abuse at the hands of their "parents" and even at the orphanage. My husband gathered them in his arms and said "Aren't they beautiful."

Getting them was difficult the expense was high, we have not recovered from it yet. Was it worth it? What value can you place on a life - or five? They are smart and loving and ever so grateful to be here. Recently we hosted a 9 year old boy from Ukraine. His mane is Dmytro. His story is typical for a child in an orphanage. He was beaten and burned by alcoholic parents. He was placed in a hospital, then a shelter and then an orphanage. He was sponsored by the Save a Child Foundation, to come to our home for a visit. This is how we met. He came and stayed with us for two and half weeks. He fits in great with our family. We asked him "if he would like us to adopt him?" He simply said "yes" That's all it took. Our girls were very sad for Dmytro to return to the orphanage, because they best of all knew what his life was like there.

We have five birth children and five adopted children. What in the world would cause us to adopt another child? When you look into Dymytro's eyes how could you not?

This is where we need your help. We need help in raising fiances to bring Dmytro home. Any donations are welcomed. They can add up and together we can do it. We need to raise approximately $30,000 to go and get him. We are told the doors to adopting in Ukraine are closing and time is of the essence. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

After reading this letter my heart went out to this amazing family. That is why I am doing this post and asking for help. Not all of us are able to adopt a child. Although by donating we can make it possible for others to adopt, and we can all make a difference!


Please help us get Dmytro into a good home where he can be loved and cared for.

If you are able to help out in any way you can send donations to my pay pal account
karenpetersen26@hotmail.com all money will go directly to the adoption process.


Thanks for making a difference and Giving Big or Little.

Friday, May 30, 2008

A "Priceless" Give

I did my first photo shoot (of kids that are not my own) for my sister-in-law. This is her darling little new born baby. All the pictures turned out really great. I was happy I was able to get such great pictures. My husband will be taking them to her tonight.
I am so excited for her to see them!!!


"There is nothing like a new born baby...
They are truly priceless"

Thursday, May 29, 2008

Service

"Faith is the first factor
in a life devoted to service.
Without it, nothing is possible.
With it, nothing is impossible."
-Mary McLeod Bethune-

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

K.I.S.S.


My two girls went to an Activity Day's party, where they learned about serving others.  I thought this was such a cute idea I just had to share it.  They were given several frogs with the word K.I.S.S. stamped on it, and a bag of Hershey Kisses. They were supposed to little acts of service and then leave the frog and the Hershey Kiss in it's place.  The K.I.S.S. stands for 

          Keep 
          I
          Secret 
          Service

It has been so much fun to find these little frogs in a clean kitchen, or on my bed that has just been made.  They have had a lot of fun doing some secret service.  What a great Little Give! 

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Touching them All!

This is an Awesome story about an amazing Little Give.  
Take a few minutes to view it.

Each of us is a being in himself and a 
being in society, each of us needs to 
understand himself and understand others, 
take care of others and be taken care of himself.  
~Haniel Long

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Just Jewelry

I went with Karen and Carson tonight to a Girls Group Home.  We scheduled an appointment to make bracelets with them.  We were their for about an hour and a half.  The girls all seemed to enjoy making their bracelets, we let each of them make two.  They were all really nice and appreciative.

As we were leaving we stopped and talked for a while before getting into our cars.  We all felt so overwhelmed by the circumstances of these young girls.  I told Carson and Karen, that I felt like this really didn't make a difference, they all have so many trials in their lives, and after all this is just jewelry it really isn't going to change anything for them.  

Karen said, "Maybe it won't change anything but at least it is a fun distraction for them during a hard time in their life."  I know that she is right, but it still doesn't seem like enough.  I wish that I could do more.  We are going to try to go and do this once a month.  This will be a nice Little Give, even if it is Just Jewelry.

"The smallest good deed is better 
than the grandest good intention."

Friday, May 16, 2008

"I Really Lived"

"I REALLY LIVED" by Marjorie Hinckley

"I don't want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautifully tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed and with long, perfectly manicured fingernails.  I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp.  I want to be there with grass stains on my shoes from mowing Sister Schenk's lawn.  I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbor's children.  I want to be there with a little dirt under my fingernails from helping to weed someone's 
garden. I want to be there with children's sticky kisses on my cheeks and the tears of a friend on my shoulder.  I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived."